A neighborhood near where I'm staying in St. Bernard Parish
Many, many and many people are still living in trailers in their front yards, waiting for someone to help them reclaim their home.
Nearly everyone took a total loss because their insurance company told them they didn't need flood insurance. All the houses lost in St. Bernard Parish was from flood.
I would imagine this house has been for sale since August 2005.
People aren't the only victims of this catastrophe.They live in a trailer in the front yard. Their house is still standing but it has just been mucked out. Two inches of mud needed to be shoveled out and everything with it. Carpet, tile, sheet rock, and wiring. These houses need to be completely stripped down to the frame.
The Kid and Man Child went with a plumber today. They were assigned to install a bathroom at a local VFW. After they got all their supplies, they were reassigned. As the work coordinator described it, "That's what it's like working down here." No worries, we're here to help, not to fulfill our own agenda. So they ended up installing gas lines for the family living in a trailer in their front yard.
I went another way and worked on framing and drywall with my dad. When we met up at the end of the day, the boys rolled in dirty and tired, but the look on their faces told a much different story. The story I wanted them to learn. Sacrifice. Thinking of others before themselves.
They have a pretty good life. We've traveled all over the US with both of them so they can chase their dreams as athletes. We aren't a wealthy family but the kids have everything they need and most everything they want. When I told them that they were going to spend Spring Break in New Orleans sleeping on a cot and doing hard labor every day, they were a bit confused. Leading up to the trip I tried to explain why I wanted them to experience this. For The Kid, who will start his first year of college in August, it was understandable on an intellectual level, but not an emotional level. He is still his favorite person. And for Man Child, it was neither intellectually understandable nor emotionally relevant to him.
They walked into the building at the end of the work day and we sat down and ate together. I could tell by the look on their faces and the difference in their language that I didn't have to explain to them why we came anymore. They are seeing the need and they are doing small things as their part to help make things better. But the thing that makes me most proud as a parent is their willingness to do it. I wanted to bring them in hopes that it would change lives, theirs included. Perhaps my life will be changed most. They are my heroes.
The boys at Gulfport, Mississippi. Sunday, March, 16, 2008